i am not an expert .... so these are the views of a novice....
i dont know how much they will change over time.. because i am the adamant kind...
(i base my definitions believing there is strong enough interest (or love!!) for one another)
in an ideal relationship.. the individuals keep their individuality... be what they are.... and do not need to sacrifice anything.... well... thats too much to ask for....
so its natural to see compromises..... but the way i look at a relationship depends on how much one is sacrificing for the other person to make it work..... it is again good if both individuals involve tend to sacrifice..... however thats very improbable... most of the time one person tends to sacrifice a lot... and traditionally... in an indian setting that happens to be the female... well i am not ruling out female domination.......
so within the relationship all is well... or it seems so.... what i wonder about is wont he/she run out of patience..... sacrificing... may be he/she does not realize the sacrifice.. in that "Ignorance is bliss".....
why i am concerned about this is ... i am scared..... I have seen the drastic effects on relationships... not one... i am old enough to have seen many... and all of them change the nature of an individual.. towards his/her friends.... because what i have seen is also as a friend...... I dont know....
i do not want to loose what i am..... i hope i am lucky....
an easier alternative.... stay single... thats what i will be for a while :)
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